I mistakenly read this book as my book group book for September. I should have read The Killing Jar. But having read the responses to Killing Jar I feel, perhaps a little smugly, that I may have got the best of the deal!
I was fascinated by Madame Bovary, but maybe more by my response to the book, than the book itself. I am beginning to think that the more classics I read the more egotistical I become. (Never used to have this problem with kiddies’ books…)
First reading this book some time ago, as a student, single and childless, I had little sympathy with either the book in general or Emma, our anti-heroine, in particular. In fact, I would have refused to think of Emma as anything other than Madame Bovary, to avoid implying any kind of familiarity with her!
I regret to say that the book engendered nothing but anger and contempt for an Emma I perceived as weak, and a total lack of engagement with any part of it.
Come September, under the false impression that I needed to read the, as I thought, dreary dirge again, I was amazed to find how much my point of view had changed.
Descriptions of life in the various strata of 19th century rural France carry enormous conviction, and the characters are the very embodiment of gritty realism, allowing an anticipation of their (often ill-judged) actions which serves to heighten the sense of impending doom building gradually throughout the book.
And Emma. Poor frustrated, misguided Emma, trapped in a claustrophobic existence. Who seeks fulfillment, grasping blindly for a state of which she has so little concept.
Reading this book pre-children, most of the frustration and naivety existed on my part. I could not understand why Emma was not satisfied by the arrival of her daughter. Nor could I begin to comprehend why she couldn’t just “get on with it.” And finally I was disgusted by what I saw as her ultimate betrayal of her own daughter.
Post-children, my position has completely reversed. Not in the sense of finding children unrewarding, or proposing to leave them motherless, but in the sense that Emma herself can be perceived as a child, in need of compassion not censure.
For me this is the primary, simple message of the story; that women treated as chattels are deprived of their ability to mature, their potential unattainable. And this in itself constitutes the tragedy of the book.
Since my morality is now apparently tempered by compassion, perhaps it’s time to dig out Anna Karenina again…